Thursday, November 27, 2008

So u wan find love,then what?

To be honest am writting this blog for u,Pitey,coz u asked me to,i aint no love doc or Doctor Phil o sumthing like that,am juss here to share my experience into wat i have sumed up into 5 simple rules to answer yo question,on how i can help you find love.
To be frank,no woman is ungatable.Nope...Thats a problem many men face,they think they cant get a woman cause she ,too classy,too fine,too demanding,high maintanance,,etc,.If u give a man a rope long enough to hang himself,he will.Which means u need to stop being like any other man,an stop thinking there is such a thing,as an ungattable woman.If she is single,she getable man,point blank period.Dont be hitting me with that she too fine for me line,,i have heard it before.which is why am creating this blog,for u,and evry other guy out ther who is restained by the confining boundaries of his miniture mind.

1.No such thing as love at first site.Yes you will love how she looks,but lets face it,looks are not evrything.I always wonder what aguy means,when he approachs a woman he has never spoken to,but because he is perplexed and vexed by her beauty,goes to her an says"i love you,go out with me".i mean dude,thats a person,she aint dum,how the heck u gon love sum1 u aint spoken to,aint eva spent time with,Man thats preposterous.Thats one problem alot guys have.The woman is not the body,its her soul mayn,She not an object,she human,like you.If u see,her,an u like her,thats fine,nothing wrong,juss don go telling her u love her mayne.

2.Get to know her man.Like i said before,the looks aint evrything.i aint saying date Haga,but juss saying,u need to get to knw her man.Go out,for a picnic,bake sumthin together,go for a trip to the beach,stroll,kick the sand,and talk man.Thats the first step to try establish something real.

3.Every woman has an opportunity cost.This is one improtant rule,if u miss understanding ths,u done missed the whole point.What do i mean? i mean,if u wan JLo,u gotta be like Mark Anthony,not be Mark anthony,but exibit the characteristics he has that attract JLO.You with me here>?like i said,this is the most crucial point you need to understand.The woman u have seen(but not told u love her b4 u knw her,ha,ha,ha),the woman you have talked to,the woman u have spent time with,is now before your eyes,And u ask yourslef,Do i have wat it takes,to be this womans man.?If the asnwer is yes?then good,if the answer is maybe,well not too bad,,we can work on it,if the answer is never,then ,dammm,we have a problem.You need to knw,hwat you have to give up to get her,and ask yourself,1)is that characteristic of me worth changing for a woman,2)Will you be a better man if you change to become that which is supreme,in her eyes.?if the asnwer to both these is yes.Then Do it.Stop drinking,Start to see yourself as the man the sees in you,that great person you can be.Because lets face it,she sees the best in you,thats why you like her so much.But never,not ever,ever, change yo core for her,because that special core is what make you,YOU,makes u unique.Brad Pitt culdnt Be u,even if he wannted to,he culdnt laugh like u,or smile like u,even if he wanted to.Stuff like,makes YOU.Dont ever change that,for nayone,not even for a million dollars man.Coz that who u are....

4.Be yourself man.Don try to be sumthin u not,Don lie abt stuff u aint got,don spend dollar u aint got to please her.Be yourself man.Its the only person u can be without trying hard.but then again,if u got the dollar,spend it mayne,,ha,ha.whats money rite.?.

5.So u done all that ,u knw her,u an u wan her,then ASK her out man.Don get some line from the intrenet,write yo own work,say yo own words,write yo own history mayne....an hmmmmm,gud luck mate.

JKenn,signing out...
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