Friday, September 18, 2009
NOT PART OF THE SYSTEM
the banks screw u over..with astronomical bank charges...the supermarkets screw you over..by charging prices so high they make R60 000..more a day,by just increasing soup by 30centcs..and we fall for it...Big Corporations,all over charge,,as for telecommunications,,let me not even go ther,wireless communication charges in South africa are the highest in the world..and yet its legal....but what saddens me most..is after being screwed over like lthis...we turn around and screw ourselves over...we buy fancy brands,for exorbitant prices...shoes ,clothes,perfumes...all in the name of status......people with no money...buying expensive labels,juss to look good...its crazy,,an we do it,,i been part of that..but no more....black culture tell us that spending is a gud thing,,but white culture tell them that saving is the way to go..then we end up poor,and broke and we wonder why....nahh man...not write,,they own big busines,,they juss give us a nice job,,nice car,,and a holiday a year,,and we think we made it,when we dont own jack!...wat a shame,,dont be part of the system,i say be the system than be part of it...
THE POWER OF A BATH
at high scool..i spent 4 years of my life ,,living under the shadows of great men...i didnt want to try nothing,,cause i figured,,they where better than me..they called me salad boy..and i hated it..an so i clumped into my shell,,for 4 long years mayne...but you see..it wasnt all easy as i thought,i mean,living below my potential.My dreams haunted me,my potential ,,haunted me..and for 4 long years,,i watched.as other guys lived their lives,other guys,excellled in sports,as other guys,became prefects..got girlfrends..and lived ...then...one day...sumthing happened...my grand daddy,was going to be baptising peopel,,at the church,,and he asked me,,if i was ready an willing to get baptised..i said..hell yeh,,,haha..by nw,i was on form 4 holiday,,waiting for my results.by the way,Zimsec,was still effecient back then.i got baptised,and that same aftanoon,i went home,,went straight to the bath,took a long bath,,a bath that would later,change the cause of my life...as i lay in teh water,my life flashed before me....the dreams i had,the hopes,of changing my life..and it is then,i made a vow,to myself,but mostly to God.that i would live from that day forth,as if,i was the only person person alive,if he could only,give me confidence..andd ohh by God he answered me,..i used to pray alot...i mean alot,ive reduced sumhow...but back then,,i wuld spend hours,praying for one thing..Confidence...and when he finaly answeed my prayer,he answered it BIG..lol..to a point that people thought i was arrogant...but they didnt know..that when God answers prayers,,he answeres BIGGG!!..me an my fiolks hd decided i was going to go to Plumtree boys high.but i changed my mind,,last minute..i decided...i was going to go back to mtshabezi high..i felt i had un finished business in that place..and i did...i couldnt leave that place...without doing justice to it..they had to see,what i realy could be,if i put my mind to it..and so i went back....and ohh boyyyy...was it one heck of a ride...as they say in hollywood...."the rest is history "....
Thursday, November 27, 2008
So u wan find love,then what?
To be honest am writting this blog for u,Pitey,coz u asked me to,i aint no love doc or Doctor Phil o sumthing like that,am juss here to share my experience into wat i have sumed up into 5 simple rules to answer yo question,on how i can help you find love.
To be frank,no woman is ungatable.Nope...Thats a problem many men face,they think they cant get a woman cause she ,too classy,too fine,too demanding,high maintanance,,etc,.If u give a man a rope long enough to hang himself,he will.Which means u need to stop being like any other man,an stop thinking there is such a thing,as an ungattable woman.If she is single,she getable man,point blank period.Dont be hitting me with that she too fine for me line,,i have heard it before.which is why am creating this blog,for u,and evry other guy out ther who is restained by the confining boundaries of his miniture mind.
1.No such thing as love at first site.Yes you will love how she looks,but lets face it,looks are not evrything.I always wonder what aguy means,when he approachs a woman he has never spoken to,but because he is perplexed and vexed by her beauty,goes to her an says"i love you,go out with me".i mean dude,thats a person,she aint dum,how the heck u gon love sum1 u aint spoken to,aint eva spent time with,Man thats preposterous.Thats one problem alot guys have.The woman is not the body,its her soul mayn,She not an object,she human,like you.If u see,her,an u like her,thats fine,nothing wrong,juss don go telling her u love her mayne.
2.Get to know her man.Like i said before,the looks aint evrything.i aint saying date Haga,but juss saying,u need to get to knw her man.Go out,for a picnic,bake sumthin together,go for a trip to the beach,stroll,kick the sand,and talk man.Thats the first step to try establish something real.
3.Every woman has an opportunity cost.This is one improtant rule,if u miss understanding ths,u done missed the whole point.What do i mean? i mean,if u wan JLo,u gotta be like Mark Anthony,not be Mark anthony,but exibit the characteristics he has that attract JLO.You with me here>?like i said,this is the most crucial point you need to understand.The woman u have seen(but not told u love her b4 u knw her,ha,ha,ha),the woman you have talked to,the woman u have spent time with,is now before your eyes,And u ask yourslef,Do i have wat it takes,to be this womans man.?If the asnwer is yes?then good,if the answer is maybe,well not too bad,,we can work on it,if the answer is never,then ,dammm,we have a problem.You need to knw,hwat you have to give up to get her,and ask yourself,1)is that characteristic of me worth changing for a woman,2)Will you be a better man if you change to become that which is supreme,in her eyes.?if the asnwer to both these is yes.Then Do it.Stop drinking,Start to see yourself as the man the sees in you,that great person you can be.Because lets face it,she sees the best in you,thats why you like her so much.But never,not ever,ever, change yo core for her,because that special core is what make you,YOU,makes u unique.Brad Pitt culdnt Be u,even if he wannted to,he culdnt laugh like u,or smile like u,even if he wanted to.Stuff like,makes YOU.Dont ever change that,for nayone,not even for a million dollars man.Coz that who u are....
4.Be yourself man.Don try to be sumthin u not,Don lie abt stuff u aint got,don spend dollar u aint got to please her.Be yourself man.Its the only person u can be without trying hard.but then again,if u got the dollar,spend it mayne,,ha,ha.whats money rite.?.
5.So u done all that ,u knw her,u an u wan her,then ASK her out man.Don get some line from the intrenet,write yo own work,say yo own words,write yo own history mayne....an hmmmmm,gud luck mate.
JKenn,signing out...
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To be frank,no woman is ungatable.Nope...Thats a problem many men face,they think they cant get a woman cause she ,too classy,too fine,too demanding,high maintanance,,etc,.If u give a man a rope long enough to hang himself,he will.Which means u need to stop being like any other man,an stop thinking there is such a thing,as an ungattable woman.If she is single,she getable man,point blank period.Dont be hitting me with that she too fine for me line,,i have heard it before.which is why am creating this blog,for u,and evry other guy out ther who is restained by the confining boundaries of his miniture mind.
1.No such thing as love at first site.Yes you will love how she looks,but lets face it,looks are not evrything.I always wonder what aguy means,when he approachs a woman he has never spoken to,but because he is perplexed and vexed by her beauty,goes to her an says"i love you,go out with me".i mean dude,thats a person,she aint dum,how the heck u gon love sum1 u aint spoken to,aint eva spent time with,Man thats preposterous.Thats one problem alot guys have.The woman is not the body,its her soul mayn,She not an object,she human,like you.If u see,her,an u like her,thats fine,nothing wrong,juss don go telling her u love her mayne.
2.Get to know her man.Like i said before,the looks aint evrything.i aint saying date Haga,but juss saying,u need to get to knw her man.Go out,for a picnic,bake sumthin together,go for a trip to the beach,stroll,kick the sand,and talk man.Thats the first step to try establish something real.
3.Every woman has an opportunity cost.This is one improtant rule,if u miss understanding ths,u done missed the whole point.What do i mean? i mean,if u wan JLo,u gotta be like Mark Anthony,not be Mark anthony,but exibit the characteristics he has that attract JLO.You with me here>?like i said,this is the most crucial point you need to understand.The woman u have seen(but not told u love her b4 u knw her,ha,ha,ha),the woman you have talked to,the woman u have spent time with,is now before your eyes,And u ask yourslef,Do i have wat it takes,to be this womans man.?If the asnwer is yes?then good,if the answer is maybe,well not too bad,,we can work on it,if the answer is never,then ,dammm,we have a problem.You need to knw,hwat you have to give up to get her,and ask yourself,1)is that characteristic of me worth changing for a woman,2)Will you be a better man if you change to become that which is supreme,in her eyes.?if the asnwer to both these is yes.Then Do it.Stop drinking,Start to see yourself as the man the sees in you,that great person you can be.Because lets face it,she sees the best in you,thats why you like her so much.But never,not ever,ever, change yo core for her,because that special core is what make you,YOU,makes u unique.Brad Pitt culdnt Be u,even if he wannted to,he culdnt laugh like u,or smile like u,even if he wanted to.Stuff like,makes YOU.Dont ever change that,for nayone,not even for a million dollars man.Coz that who u are....
4.Be yourself man.Don try to be sumthin u not,Don lie abt stuff u aint got,don spend dollar u aint got to please her.Be yourself man.Its the only person u can be without trying hard.but then again,if u got the dollar,spend it mayne,,ha,ha.whats money rite.?.
5.So u done all that ,u knw her,u an u wan her,then ASK her out man.Don get some line from the intrenet,write yo own work,say yo own words,write yo own history mayne....an hmmmmm,gud luck mate.
JKenn,signing out...
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Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Who am i>?
Who i am is of no significance at this point,i may call myself,a man on a mission,trying to figure out ,what makes life tick?,a man trying to stand up for something ata time,where very fiew people actualy care,inspired by this famous quote"..."In Germany they came first for the Communists,and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Communist.Then they came for the Jews, and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Jew.Then they came for the trade unionists, and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a trade unionist.Then they came for the Catholics, and I didn't speak up because I was a Protestant.Then they came for me, and by that time no one was left to speak up"...Martin Niemoelle.I mean we all are people,but what makes other people better than other people?i mean in terms of success,.Why are African countries,so bad,yet we were all created by the same God,biblists will try to make it sound like its alright to be poor,to suffer and watch as your existance moves to the relms of obliteration.I say No!People deserve better,they deserve better than the 1994 Sudan genocide,they derseve better than the Mugabe regime,that has sent a country once Africa's bread basket,back into the stone age.So why did i creat this Blogg,to express my opinions,at time,when many man watch in silence.Watch in silence as kids grow up,raised by grandparents,because their parents have died from Aids,a deases Thabo Mbeki was quoted as saying did not exist.As all we have as varsity students is hope,no freedom,for What they faught for,,they have to themselves.I feel black got the short straw,cause we still aint got half what we faught for...welcome....to my life yall,,my political views
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